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Written by Damien D
Tuesday, 31 May 2011 00:55
Did you know that you flirt with other men? That's right. The only
difference present is that flirting with guys isn't sexual in
nature. In fact, flirting doesn't need to be sexual at all. Humans,
just like most other mammals, play together to establish
relationships - both sexual and platonic. Naturally, you will
'flirt' with other guys all the time when you make fun of them,
share stories or have a laugh except you do it in a way that
fosters camaraderie.
With every person that I am a friend to, every person I am going to be friends with and every female that I am more than friends with or am going to be more than friends with, I flirt. I flirt because I enjoy playing with someone and playing equals having fun. Fun equals comfort and comfort equals "I want to know you better". This works well for all parties involved.
Cheers!
Written by Damien D
Monday, 30 May 2011 06:53
Last Friday night, I headed out with a few guys in the city. One of
the problems we had was guys getting rejected at the door. The
other problem a lot of guys had was bailing out of sets too early.
Believe it or not the two are actually related, and odds are if you
have trouble getting into clubs you are also going to have trouble
getting shot down by women. How is this so? I'll explain.
Friday night at a nightclub is a pretty happening place, and truth be known bouncers like to make it difficult for guys to get in. How many of you have experienced these scenarios?
Cheers!
Written by SOA Mentor
Monday, 30 May 2011 06:45
The following is based on my own previous experiences and findings.
I'm sure there may be writings or whatever on this topic but I
think its nice to reinforce the ideas.
How many times have we all heard "I doesn't matter, just get over there and talk. it doesn't matter what you say"? I definitely agree with the idea. But say that to someone new to our community and watch their face go blank and say "yeah but I still dont know what I'm goin to do". I am all for being as natural as I can. I also believe that thinking about what you're going to say in the future can definitely clog up your thoughts for the present conversation. But I love the idea of always having fall back ideas / structures in case the conversation isn't moving the direction I want it to.
Cheers!
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